tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1191004635942102203.post5715510710996166536..comments2024-01-28T05:12:33.324-06:00Comments on A Sophisticated Mommy: How to Discipline a Two Year OldTrudyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05503393342299782098noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1191004635942102203.post-59368346899059459282011-05-18T07:00:13.806-06:002011-05-18T07:00:13.806-06:00My daughter is 2 1/2 is the exact same! We kept m...My daughter is 2 1/2 is the exact same! We kept making excusses because we moved, new house, started daycare and I'm sure it's part of those things too...but how long can you make excusses, right! She is also sooo good and saying sorry and we don't even need to ask her to do it now! lol! I do a lot of distraction. When I know the behaviour is getting back, I try to re-direct her and find that really helps. One way I do this is by getting a book and pulling out a toy not already in front of her. I was reading somewhere about toddlers having bad days soon and of couse..we all do, right! So one day she was really frustrated with something I could see the steam coming from here ears. I just knelt down beside and asked if she was okay. She screamed at the top of her lungs....this would usually get her a time out, but all I asked if she felt better now and hugged her. She sobbed for few seconds and then we moved on. Sometimes a hug works too and I see that I don't always give her all the attention she needs. Mind you, I only have 1 kid...but these are just some things I have been on working on, in order to control the "terrible twoes"!JLDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1191004635942102203.post-86698825078028111702011-05-17T23:46:14.152-06:002011-05-17T23:46:14.152-06:00Oh man! I think you have my 3 year old!! I remembe...Oh man! I think you have my 3 year old!! I remember years ago someone telling me that at this age, they are not manipulative or intentional, just exploring. My daughter was emceeing a parenting conference (11years old!) and the experts were saying to ask for cooperation instead of punishing children. I always "power down" when my little one begins his controlling ways, and he seems to like to cooperate...just takes more talking time :-)! good luck!The Commercial Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15605297842350846751noreply@blogger.com